becoming a happy adult in a sunny sustainable world.
Exactly one year ago yesterday, I packed up my life in my little toyota corolla and headed eastbound on I-20, leaving behind my happy comfortable life in Atlanta. When I think back to that girl, she seems like a baby compared to me now. As I was sitting at the dog park this evening, reading The Happiness Project, I began reflecting on how I’ve grown in the last year. The lessons learned. The mistakes made. The bloopers and the awesome moments.
When I moved and began this new life, my mom told me I should keep a journal about my experiences because they would no doubt make an interesting memoir. Northern girl loses big corporate job in big city, buys a house in smaller southern town to defend indigent criminals, leaving her friends and life behind in big city. Northern girl flounders around becoming an adult. Flounders owning her first home. Flounders dealing with a completely different clientele than she’s used to. Eventually northern girl finds her way as an adult. Funniness ensues in the meantime.
Yep, that’s pretty much the story line for my life from the past year. But did I listen to my mom and take notes as things went? Nope. That would have been too easy. And too obedient.
And now, I’m looking back, trying to remember the year. And I’m sad that I don’t have a full account of this past year (I would love to read my thoughts on the day I came home for lunch and found my dining room ceiling caved in….). So, I’m doing something I rarely do. I’m listening to my mom. And I’m going to start documenting my life…better. I’m going to do what she told me to do from the beginning. Because, as usual, mommy knows best.
I’ve been in a blog funk lately. Not really feeling like blogging…because I don’t feel like I fit in the “healthy living blog” mold. I don’t fit in the “running blog mold.” I just feel like I don’t know where it’s going or why I do this. And then, I realized that the most fun I have with the blog is writing about this new life. Sometimes that’s about my training. SOmetimes that’s about cooking. Sometimes it’s about the time I had to sentence someone while my nose was running down my face (true story. I’ll tell you tomorrow…). And sometimes it’s about running into a client in a speedo.
So that’s why I’m actually listening to my mommy this time (a first!). I’m going to be writing about my new life. Growing up. FInding my way as a grown-up.
This means this might be less of a healthy living blog. And more of Penny Living Blog.
Hope y’all will still stick around. There will still by cupcakes. I promise.
A public defender super heroine by day, I am a cupcake baker extraordinaire by night. And come weekend, I am an IronPerson. I deal with an NPR addiction daily and I dream of one day having Carl Kasell on my answering machine. I strive to be the best fur-mommy I can be, and when I have time, I'm learning to be a grownup.
25 Responses for "One year later."
The “mother does know best” realization is definitely a part of growing up and reaching adulthood
I think it’s a great idea and I can’t wait to read!
Pen living > Healthy living
Pen…I will always stick around! You rock and I would rather read about what you really want to write about than what you think you should be writing about!
Have a great Saturday! xoxo!
Well you know you have me as a reader.
I love finding a blog that I can relate to- leaving comfortable behind and jumping into the unknown!
I think your blog is great. I feel very lost in life right now. I should journal more, but I just cannot concentrate on anything. Its horrific!
Well as long as their are cupcakes and some ironperson talk.
Plus I love your humor.
Omg, your dining room ceiling caved in?!! What happened?!! I can only imagine what your thoughts on that would have been… wow! Looking forward to the nose running story!! Hehe, I love all your stories!
You’re a great blogger!!
i don’t fit into any molds either, little sister, and i’m trying to do this thing anyway. so we can be moldless together! (i’m not a photo blogger, not a sports blogger, not a music blogger — but i’m all of those things, too, though!)
love you, pops. xoxo.
It’s a good idea. Someday you’ll be happy that you can look back on your life and have a memory jogger for all the good times (and that bad). I kind of think that’s what my blog is, too. Sort of a journal of my life rather than information about a particular subject that follows a theme.
Very exciting . Can’t wait to read more!
Of course we’ll still be around!! Glad you found what your blogging voice!
of course i’ll stick around! i love reading your posts and your words
Being a relatively new reader and seeing your summary, I realized HOLY COW, we have so freakin’ much in common. Just insert “inner city teacher” and “california” and we are on the same page. Totally crazy and I can totally relate with the niche you are trying to find in the blog-world. It’s a mix of all things which makes it great!! And it is fun to use this as a way to document things going on in your life
My mom totally reads and comments on my blog …
ohh there are way too many healthy lifestyle blogs already
carving your own niche = the way to go!
i’m so excited to hear about your thoughts on the HP! what do you think so far?
I Love all of your Penny living blogs!!! You are so brave doing things that I would never dream of doing! I can’t wait to read the story about your running nose!!!
I ran across your blog (not sure anymore how I even got here) but I love it!
I’m not going anywhere! The thing I love about your blog is that I never really know what to expect when I open the page!
I’ve been reading your blog for the past couple months but I’ve never commented. Love your blog
I like that it doesn’t fit succinctly into any particular niche – it’s refreshing and I wouldn’t change a thing about that!
Looking forward to the Penny Living
I’m not going anywhere. Truth be told, I like reading the “Penny Living Blog” entries. You always have the best house/work stories!
I come to your blog for your dry wit and cupcakes…so if you feel “guilty” about not fitting a mold…don’t. I read your blog cause I’ve come to like you! I don’t fit a mold either..HELLO I’M ASIAN and am not 100% healthy!! Keep your head up and I’ll read your posts WHENEVER you post.
I’m sorry. I only read healthy living blogs, so I will have to delete this from my reader. Too bad, because I was really counting on cupcakes.
Hoody hoo, that was a joke. Get it?! Here’s something: one night a few months ago, I drunk-Amazon bought a $600 camera. That was dumb, my mom said, but you should use it to – and I quote – “start documenting your life.” So I started a blog. It’s working out so far. Good luck to you.
I sort of randomly found your blog through another blog, and I very much like the fact that it’s not a food blog, a running blog, a ‘healthy’ (whatever) living blog. How do people fit into such nice, easy boxes?
I’m also a big fan of the “how-to-be-an-adult” blogs (nice, easy box). I think it’s hard to navigate that at times, so I like people who share their stories.
Me thinks that the change will actually make the blog more interesting to read…because seriously, how much running or healthy living can one take. You have personality, lots…so use it, don’t lose it!
Seeing that I’ve catching up with google reader, I’ll weigh in:
Part of the reason why I like your blog is that you DON’T fit any particular mold. Its far nicer to see someone who blogs about their life as opposed to making their life fit a blog, if that makes sense.
I think a penny living blog is much more exciting than simply healthy living….if you’re an interesting person (which you are…CUPCAKES!!), then your blog will be interesting too. Maybe even more interesting than carrots
haha
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